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3rd time PASSED 75 questions! 1st time had 265! 2 years out of school!

Those who are anxious about taking the NCLEX, I know how you feel. Especially those who have already failed the NCLEX.

Trust me, I've been there. 

Does this sound familiar? "I'm thinking of giving up Nursing completely." "I'll never be able to pass this test. Statistics show that repeat test takers have a lower chance of passing the more you take the exam." "I'm so overwhelmed, nothing has worked for me. I've paid hundreds on reviews and I'm going bankrupt paying for this test over and over." 

I'm not here to remind you of all your fears. I'm here to tell you to take EVERYTHING you feel... your fears, your doubts, your worries, your thoughts of "all these people are depending on me."... take ALL of your negativity (and I mean ALL of it) and accept it. Let yourself go through those emotions and accept that they are a part of you and they are there. But don't let yourself dwell. Take all of it, accept it, and then throw it away. Never let it hold you back again. Write it all down on paper if you have to, crumple it up, and throw it away forever.

I graduated May 3, 2013.
I took my NCLEX the 1st time on July 30, 2013. I failed with 265 questions.
I took my NCLEX the 2nd time on November 26, 2013. I failed with 97 questions.
I gave up Nursing completely.
I found inspiration and decided to study again.
I took my NCLEX the 3rd time on February 19, 2015. I PASSED WITH 75 QUESTIONS.


How?
Okay, first off let me say... I did nursing initially for all the wrong reasons. To please my parents. I despised it, but I thought if I do it then they would be happy. 
It wasn't until I fully accepted it in my life that I was able to start studying again. Now, I know you're all waiting for the "What review did you take? What tips did you have? How long did you study?" I'll get there but that's not as important than this. I promise.

The NCLEX is a brutal, mind playing exam.
It's there not to test what you know, but what you'll do with what you know. I applaud the makers of NCLEX because they truly understand how to put Nurses out there on the field who won't kill anyone. Those questions are out there to make you critically think... and trust me, if you're answering questions right, you'll know you're critically thinking. You can hear and feel yourself thinking. It's a mental test. And you have to mentally prepare yourself... physically, emotionally, intellectually, and yes... spiritually.

It doesn't matter what religion you are or if you don't have one at all. But O.M.G. you better start thinking of someone you can take with you on your exam date. I grew up a roman catholic but I wasn't as faithful as I should have been. Those two years without praying. But the second I started giving all my anxiety to Him, I felt a huge burden lifted. I said "I know I failed twice, (I named all of my fears), and now it's up to you. Let your will be done. I'm letting go of all my fears and giving it all to you." Once I did that, I felt so much peace. I kid you not, every single second of my test I could feel Him next to me. Every SINGLE question I wasn't 100% sure (which was half my test), I said a little prayer before I submitted my answer "If it is your will, let it be. I am ready. If not, then I understand." I honestly let Him guide me to the right answers. Sometimes I would change my answer because I could feel it. So think of someone... anyone. Let them be with you. Find your peace a midst all of the anxiety. 

Now, the part you've been waiting for.
The first time I took my test, I had a private tutor. Worked pretty well because 265 questions and failing is THE CLOSEST you could ever get to passing (if you understand how CAT works). 
The second time I took my test, I did Kaplan and reviewed with my ATI. Works for a lot of people but didn't work for me. Sorry.
The third time I took my test, I used Hurst and NCSBN. 

Honestly, SO many people can tell you what to do, what to read, and how long to do it. Trust me, I've looked at so many testimonials, watched dozens of YouTube videos, and talked to SO many nursing friends... But NO ONE can help you but you. Sad story but true. YOU understand YOURSELF. I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you this.

YOU HAVE TO FOCUS. YOU HAVE TO WANT IT. YOU HAVE TO GIVE IT ALL YOU GOT.

I am a social butterfly. I worked 2 jobs. I volunteered, I danced in a company, I had a clingy relationship...
I was blessed to be able to take a whole month off, fly to a different state to stay with my RN sister, and focus solely on studying.
I know some of you won't have that luxury, but I'm telling you.. If you have that luxury you HAVE TO take it if you're having a hard time passing. For those of you who don't, manage your time. Make NCLEX the priority. Take out what can be taken out. Like I said, the makers of the NCLEX know when they can let loose an RN to the general public and be safe. Because they know that those who passed the NCLEX know time management skills and prioritization... since they had to learn all that in nursing school and while studying for the NCLEX! I CANNOT stress enough how much you need to just FOCUS and put NCLEX first.

I studied 8-10hrs/day 5days/week. On the weekends I went hiking, spent time with family and friends, relaxed and meditated.

The first 2 weeks I spent doing Hurst. Watched every review, filled in every blank, and read the FAQs. I would listen to the same lecture again and use a different pen to write more notes. I would color code highlight (pink = positions, green = interventions, blue = s/s, etc.) so that I could go back and quickly find things if I needed clarification. (Positioning is something people often overlook!) I would listen to the lectures while falling asleep, brushing my teeth, taking a shower. Repetition, repetition.

The second 2 weeks I spent on the NCSBN review. I did all the mandatory subjects first. Fully understood them before I went on to the other subjects. But I didn't get too caught up in knowing everything. You can't possibly know everything. And you have to accept that. It was hard for me to since I'm a perfectionist. Honestly, though.. perfectionism while preparing for the NCLEX is a downfall. Read the review and find out what's the need to know. If it's getting too in depth to a point where it gives you anxiety, move on.. Take the test, see what you don't understand and focus on the lowest test scores and move to the highest.

The week before my exam... No more studying. Just 300 questions/day. The last bit on the NCSBN review. Yeah, that's all I used. Actually I did TWO out of the SIX Q Reviews with Hurst but I figured, "Hey! NCSBN are the makers of the test. Might as well use their questions. I don't have time to answer all the questions in the world, but I'm fine with that."

I didn't even sleep well the night before my test. I was so anxious. I studied too hard the day before my test. But man, oh man... finding that inner peace and guidance that I was talking about earlier... that focused me on the task ahead and what I needed to pass. You all can do it if I can do it. I know you're tired of hearing that (I know I was), but it's true. All you need is focus, prayer, and confidence.. with a little bit of review.

I hope you all took something out of this. I hope you all learned something. If there's anything I can do to help, I'm here. Honestly, I want EVERYONE to pass. I care about everyone because I know how I felt when I was studying. That feeling sucked. Nearly had me give up on everything completely. But here I am now... I want you all to do well. I want you all to succeed. 

I'm here for you. YOU CAN DO IT!

  • In reply to andypham:

    Good jobs:)

  • looks like were in the same boat.  I been a lpn for 10 years and a grad rn for 2 years took nclex rn three times keep running out of time slow reader then i bounce between answer choices  suggestions nubian_porcia01@yahoo.com

  • In reply to sexynursega:

    Thanks so much for posting this. I've been out of school for 4 years. Could you please email me at daniellelewis589@yahoo.com

  • In reply to rnhopeful318:

    i have been out of school for 4 years too and im scheduled to take the test on april 16th. im anxious

  • Awesome post. I have nearly been out of school for almost a year and I'm scheduled to take the exam (3rd time) in early April. I too have experienced a great deal of humiliation and anxiety. I took Hurst and Kaplan and now I am implementing this course (NCSBN). I have put ALL of my faith in God's hands at this point and I know he will not forsaken me. On the first exam I ran out of time at 253 questions and on the second time I was so anxious about running out of time I bombed the test at question 93. I did my research about requesting for extra time and I took the necessary steps and I was granted extra time. I highly encourage to request for extra before you take the next exam.

  • In reply to nurseflint:

    @starkendra25

    Thank you all for reading my post! I appreciate it. I apologize for the late response, I've been so busy.

    I will e-mail you both!

    Kendra, your test is just around the corner. You can do it! Let me know if you need any help :)

    nurseflint, I'm so glad that you have determined the cause of your trouble with the NCLEX. It's difficult to do that so I applause you for going out and doing something about it. 3rd time is the charm! :) Was for me! Haha. You seem very focused and confident, so all my advice for you is to keep with your faith and He will provide. See you on the other side ;)

  • In reply to starkendra_25:

    Don't be anxious! You got this! Although you have been out of school for 4 years, it doesn't mean you have less of a chance. Study, focus, and let the past go. I highly recommend core content for you since you might be a little hazy with those subjects. NCSBN and Hurst are great for knowing your core content. And you should know it, ALL of it, before you attempt the test.

  • In reply to abarrido:

    i read the content and went through all the question banks. my scores were mostly 60-70 so im going through the questions again and getting 90-100. im remembering the rationales. i work at night so when i get off im so exhausted  i can't read anything. i tried lippincott 3500 and my scores were just in the 50s. don't know what to do

  • In reply to starkendra_25:

    Please how do you request for extra time??? I ran out of time after 201 questions.

  • In reply to starkendra_25:

    You're doing great! I was scoring 60-70s and I passed in 75 questions. Just as long as you apply what you've learned from the rationals :) Don't study when you're tired, nothing will go through! Study on your days off. If you're not doing well with Lippincott, stop and focus on NCSBN. Don't overwhelm yourself with too many reviews. It can be overwhelming and they can't contradict each other. Different reviews test and grade differently. Remember, NCSBN are the makers of NCLEX.

  • In reply to #fixitJesus:

    I'm sorry, I don't know that but can help you with that.

  • I am so happy for you

  • In reply to nurseflint:

    Regards to nurseflint, what are the steps for requesting extra time? I ran out of time with 180plus questions on my second time 2 years ago. Im gonna write my 3rd time for Nevada state.

  • In reply to WE can do it:

    @We can do it @#fixitjesus   Feel free to email me @ lavettapace@yahoo.com